Effective communication is a
neglected life skill that most young adults ignore. I do believe that it not
only carries a certain importance in our future career arena, but also in our
daily activities. Some its benefits that are slightly more pertinent to myself
would be that its globally effective, builds strong relationships in our
personal life and maintains a concrete professional network.
Last summer, I did an
internship at UC Berkeley, in its Biomolecular Nanotechnology Research Centre
(BNC). During my stay at the lab, I got to meet a wide range of professionals
and undergraduates like myself. I soon realized the importance of first
meet-ups and presenting yourself as an individual. At first I was caught off
guard, and did not know how to introduce myself. However, as I worked there, I
learnt to present myself confidently and at the same time lay down a good
network.
One excellent method that I
used remind myself to communicate effectively is to understand that
face-to-face communication involves two people (not one!) influencing each
other in real time and simultaneously. This may seem strange, as we usually
perceive it as a listener and receiver. It is not solely on the words said, but
also non-verbal communication. Non-verbal communication is an on going process
and usually becomes a source of output for the listener. For example, when I
address my name, it is sometimes difficult for them to pronounce because it is
a Chinese name, I would notice they would frown while trying to repeat myself.
I would then break the awkwardness by smiling and then repeating myself. Simple
gestures like this do go a long way in making an impression.
